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Mike Posner – Cooler Than Me

// July 18th, 2010 // No Comments » // Tony-Ng.com Website

Weekend #3

// June 27th, 2010 // No Comments » // Tony-Ng.com Website

I wanted to start off by saying, “I have no idea what a girl wants, but I know what I want, and that is the GIRL!”

Friday night was one of the most amazing nights that I had in a while, I have spent the day working my butt off, but after decided to go Zanzabar to do what I do best.  First set that I spot was instantly on, it was a 2-Set both of them were J-Girls spending their last night at the club to relax and have some fun.  I began to work this set with instinct and my instinct led me all the way.  First began by doing a simple opener, “where are you from?” then escalated to “I can’t hear you, come over here so we can talk”  at that point that they complied I knew it was on.  This time it was time to change gears as the connection have began to slow down, I instantly led them to the dance floor to escalate, and did my basics of salsa spins and hip kino.  After we decided to take pictures, and then my wing came in and did an amazing job of coming in at the right time.  We broke the set back again and designated our targets effectively.  The struggle with the J-sets are that they don’t stay here for long.  I had to escalate in 3 hours while building attraction and comfort.  Because of my sales experience from work comfort building was no problem.  I kept on asking open-ended questions that led me deeper into her life.  I felt so attracted to her, as we began to develop a sense of togetherness.  The communication was the most difficult obstacle to overcome, my lack of japanese was my limiting factor into believing that I could become successful with Japanese woman.  This case was however a different factor, the random belief that this was easy just hit my head, and all of a sudden my wing’s HB camera flew off on the dance floor, then my thought process went berserk.  I have never been in any situation where this was the case, as I’ve been through difficult obstacles and directions before.  However I stayed with her till the end of the night while looking for her camera.  She was so apologetic as we took time to communicate to each other, and during that time we developed a good communication with the club and the people in  it.  At the end of the night, I walked her to the hotel and we departed ways…

Weekend #2

// June 9th, 2010 // No Comments » // Tony-Ng.com Website

This week has been an ever-changing opportunity.  I immediately saw myself change from an AFC (Average Frustrated Chump) to emerging PUA.  Before I detail my events, I wanted to document that my mindset and thoughts have changed dramatically.  Of the course of studying sales and pick-up, I became a prototype to almost ever aspect of business and pick-up.

This weekend began on a thursday night, I was so hesitant on beginning my night as this time I will not have an PUAs or wings with me, but mere naturals.  The night began slow, but ended as heart drenched as ever.  After being familiar with approaching and taking high-energy I was able to utilized my openers in the clubs, by just randomly high-fiving people, forcing my name and just screaming at them.  Its really interesting how people would view this.  Well our night began at Paparazzi, and I realized that there was nothing to be found here, we moved to our next venue in Waikiki.  Both lotus soundbar and Zanzabar was adamantly busy.  In Zanzabar there are however a slew of J-Girls that happened to be there, we met a girl that was on her honeymoon here in Honolulu, and then her attraction temperature spiked right as my wing began talking to her.  Although I don’t understand what the conversation is about, I was able to take note that she was interested in him.  This ability seemed to have cued in more as time goes by.  The set eventually broke and we appeared in lotus.  Lotus soundbar was one of the most interesting night, I hesitated on three HBs, but decided to open the one by the bar, I didn’t feel attracted, but she seemed like a cool cat so I decided to introduce myself with “you look bored, maybe you should get your refund.”  and then immediately the conversation moved someplace.  Although there is no attraction in this set, it felt good to have finally opened and accepted.  The energy from Zanzabar was transferred to Lotus as I noticed a 8-set dancing in the middle of the dance floor, which instantly made me go and approach the most non attractive one there.  At this point I realized that my trouble remains to build escalation and move on towards the close.  As I moved downstairs to gather my friends to leave for the night, one of them have already approached a three J-Set.  He wasn’t moving on with the set who was having trouble communicating with him.  HBenergy was the most active one in the group while HBsmall and HBmom was sitting waiting to leave.  After talking to the set, I was able to number close on a D-2 to first fridays in chinatown.  This led to an instant number close with a japanese number.

The energy at first fridays was ridiculous, this was my first time at first fridays and I finally realized that there was an insane amount of people there.  The bars were all packed.  We met with the 3-Set after 2 Hours sarging at a place my friend was promoting.  I met with HBserver who I once tried sarging with back when I first began training.  At that point I realized that this island was small.  After instantly starting a conversation with her, the attraction between us built up quickly, but my mind was focused on the 3-set I was after for the night.  I should have creatively set up the stage correctly at the venue to instantly build rapport before I go out again next time.  Meeting with the 3-set really built a lot of comfort between them, as we were able to bounce them from chinatown to soratbol.  After Friday I realized that “hesitation leads to masturbation…” and that every good opportunity takes seconds to receive an answer.  My hesitation lead me to stall and eventually dropped them off at their hotel.

Saturday was a break from the sarges, and at that time, I realized that the day game was the best location to do most of my sarges…

The Start of a New Beginning to a Never Ending Lifestyle

// June 1st, 2010 // No Comments » // Tony-Ng.com Website

Over the last couple days in this memorial day weekend. I decided to display apart of my life that I had to give up in order to try succeed in a different aspect of my life. If you guys don’t already know me by now, then I hope that in this post you will understand me to the fullest regards. I am a person that will fight for whatever I believe in, and no matter what happens I will never give up especially if it is something that I am passionate about. As my life begins to change and evolve, I realized that most of my friendships from my younger years have become nonexistent. The friendships that I developed now are with business partners, lifestyle coaches, and different group of people that seem to revolve around me in some way.

I consider myself as a pretty nice guy, and I think that if I continue this attitude of mines I will eventually fail to develop to become a stronger character.  When they say that nice guys always finish last, it is true, by taking my time to analyze and calculate the successes that nice guys have verses jerks and punks is almost entirely zero.  I will be going through all the events that have happened to me in this memorial day weekend blast.  I will list down in detail about what is going on in my nightlife, as well as where I see my future lifestyle goals.  During this time, I realized that the goals that I create are the fundamentals of my success.  In preparing to push myself to the limits of time I’ll become aware of the moment at stake.

When I first started to learn pick-up back in the ending of 2008, and developing myself through 2009.  Over tons of interactions, I was able to calculate emotions, attractions, times for escalation.  This whole interaction with people made me feel invincible.  This feeling was like from the matrix where I am now able to slow time and move to where I want to be.  I wish I was like the same as before, but I realized that this journey that I am heading will lead me to the realization of myself, I will be able to understand myself more deeply, and discover my weaknesses to overcome and also learn to develop and nurture the skills that I have and also learn to develop other skills.

Quick Recap of Memorial Day Weekend (Weekend 1)

Friday: 7AM – Art after dark in the academy of arts, was the first of the new beginning.  This area featured galleries of beautiful collectibles.  The environment was different to my usual club or day scene.  This was a mixture of both, and this environment brought to life my anxiety.  I was hesitant to open and successfully articulate a conversation with anybody. I have however learned a lot about myself, and admiring the art and the gallery made me open to new things in life.

10AM – Squandering for locations – The hardest thing about the Hawaii lifestyle is that no-one is ever use to our nightlife.  Just as the clock turned double digits the nightlife have paused, and we squandered for different locations first starting in Chinatown, then moving to town and also Waikiki.

12AM – Settled into an area in Waikiki and had a few bottles of H20 to start the night.  We landed in a scene under a younger crowd which made me wonder and question about the qualities of the different sex that I am attracted to.  During this time I realized that those qualities were not located in this scene.

Saturday : 11PM : Began on a late night to the most exquisite scene of the night.  This night was filled with surprises as we entered and made our way through the crowd.  I’ve began to understand the ability of the gaze and through this I was able to capture glances from almost everyone.  I analyzed almost every scenario with this maturer scene and it really sparked me that this crowd was a lot more innovative and mature.  This is the crowd that I wanted to be known at, but the attraction of this crowd was never there.  Without attraction there is no flame.  Although I liked the livelihood of the crowd this was not my night, and without attraction there was never going to be a direction.

Sunday : 7PM – Salsa Night commenced,  I rekindled my love for this dance, as this pushed my limits to a new degree.  This is a gift that one of my friends left before leaving to serve this beautiful country.  Throughout this night I was inspired by the passion that this dance brings.  Met a couple of new people in this area although no attraction was there, there was definitely a lesson to be learned.

10PM – Rave – I wanted to first mention that this was never my scene, but the experience of this was unforgettable.  I have really thought of myself as the person that never got to experience the “College Life” and the “Social Freedom.” This night really brought my whole perspective and organized my thoughts to the fullest.  I did learn a lot of lesson from tonight, and this was my first night pushing to open brand new sets.  I’ve learned that leading through the conversation was the most important feature that people find in a person.  This night ended when I began to learn that there are two different types of direct approaches.  I would call this the “direct compliment” – “Hey I thought that you looked cute so I had to talk to you, who are you?” and the “direct lead” – “Hey your cute, lets go dance.”  Although 90% of the conversation is about the body language and the tonality, what you say must also be congruent with what your body language states.  This night really taught me how to not be afraid and to push through.

Monday – Happy Memorial Day – The conclusion of memorial day was wonderful.  I began to understood the traits of human beings a lot more.  I am able to now calculate and calibrate myself on time differentials.  I really want to develop myself a lot more to understand how to perfect it.  During memorial day, I was able to enjoy the lantern festival that happened at the beach, and this was the most relaxing experience that I had.  I’ve realized about myself that I want to revolve around me, are people that strive for success.  These people push me to my limits, and they are people who understand and develop their lives to develop others.

Diary

// May 24th, 2010 // No Comments » // Tony-Ng.com Website

I was listening to the radio this morning and I ran into this song, which I thought was pretty good.

Exhaustion

// February 22nd, 2010 // No Comments » // Tony-Ng.com Website

What is exhaustion really?  I have been working 14-18 hours a day, and when I finally come home, I instantly become weak and fatigued.

Throughout my journey in life currently, I did however realize that the small things in life are the influencing factors in my ability to become successful.  This influence has became my innermost drive to live in my current day situations, because lets be honest, I really don’t have a life at all.  Here is the exact schedule to my current day : wake up, school, work sleep.  I feel that this path have taken me further into abysmal, I neglected my friends, isolated family members and loved ones, and spend my spare time trying to grow my business.  After years of studying business, I’ve never realized that after being in the field is a whole different story.  This brings me to the fact of preparation.  You can prepare as much as you want and you can take as long of a time to get ready, but when you actually begin is when everything start to matter in your life.

It is exactly 2:57am in the morning, and I haven’t been able to sleep.

GOOD MORNING HAWAII…

What are we fighting for?

// January 23rd, 2010 // No Comments » // Tony-Ng.com Website

There are so many thoughts that come into my mind, its driving me crazy.   Life gives us so many obstacles, and it expects us to jump through everyone of them like shining stars.  But the reality is that none of us are able to jump like shining stars.  Sure we might have the potential to overcome everything that we got, but in the end it seems like we just fight to lose.  Everyone is going to die sooner or later, but why do we even bother to fight?  Life handed me an opportunity of starting a new business, but in the end it feels like I’ve exchanged everything that I’ve got in order to make it happen.

I have a feeling that I won’t be sleeping tonight.

The Recreation and the Rebirth

// January 13th, 2010 // No Comments » // Tony-Ng.com Website